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I don’t know (or care) what the feminist party line is on pornography. Does porn empower us or does it degrade us? I think it can do both and it depends on a person’s personal view and personal experience with it. So trying to define the entire industry with a single emotive statement is useless.

I like my porn hardcore and to the point. The nastier the better. None of this soft focus, female-full-frontal-only bullshit. If I’m going to see all the woman’s bits and pieces, the man better be man enough to have all of his put on display too.

There have been women sexually abused who loathe porn of any sort—and who can blame them? But what gets me are the women (and men) who think pornography is bad, full stop, and it should come to an end.

Porn has been around since the ancient civilizations of the world. What makes you think we’re going to listen to YOU? NOW?

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Yeah, I thought so.

I’ve heard women argue against porn because it’s “not a true representation of sexual relationships.” It is for some folks. How many people get divorced in a year? Why isn’t anyone slamming the wedding industry for not giving “a true representation of marriage?”

Some women say porn is bad because all of the women are beautiful and airbrushed and are “not a true representation of” most women. You obviously have not seen as much porn as I have. Now that you got amateur porn out there with the studio-produced porn, anyone can be a porn star with a web cam and a good Internet connection.

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Frankly, I’m not jealous of any of these porn stars because they will go through life having more STDs than I ever will.

What I hate more than anything is how people use porn as a means to shame people (mostly women) who like or love sex and don’t need all the violins and fluff and puff women are expected to like because it’s more feminine and refined.

My views about sex are quite straightforward. I think sex should be between consenting adults…human adults, preferred. Period. The number and/or gender of adults who partake at the same time is none of my business.

3invisibledicksPerhaps one of the few conventional (read: conservative) things I believe in is that kids have sex way too young and are bombarded with sex way too young. They hardly have a childhood, and that sucks. I don’t have kids, but I was raised by parents who shielded me from things until they thought I was old enough to question, if not understand, what was going on. I wasn’t completely sheltered as a child because I wasn’t raised under a rock, but my parents didn’t want me getting in over my head with “adult themes.”

My erotic novella Summer of Consent is about a barely legal teen in a sexual relationship and the issues she has to deal with, but it’s that “barely legal” description that relegates it to the “taboo” end of the scale and, for some, stops being erotic and becomes pornographic, never mind that sex is still between legal adults.

I didn’t make the laws. I just follow them. One woman’s porn is another woman’s erotica. So be it.

But, getting back to porno flicks, I’ve seen a lot of it thanks to the Internet. I may be jaded in that it takes a lot to shock me, but I prefer to see it as being more tolerant of people’s tastes.

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What do you think about porn? Who are some of your favorite porn stars?

 

 

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